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by Mark De Smit
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I am not sure if my girl is cheating on me- we are together for 2 and half year and I did missed treat her in those years. We also broke up many times and got back together. First year she went backhome and after a year I borrowed her old cell from her since my broke for emergency and after I found out in the video - she and her exboyfriend ina restaurant and her feeding him. I asked what the f is it and she said - he is like brother to him - I was mad at first but later I thought may be yah. That's before. These days her phone is off sometime and can't get a hang of her. On christmas we spend time together and later I went home since her mom was back from work - later night I call her mom and found out she went karaoke at night and she didn't told me anything about it - she said she was with her friend and some guys since I asked "r u with guys". Couple of days before she came back from work and she was at home she said - later I called and she is in china town - she said she is with her mom - so I told her to hive it to her mom when u get out of washroom so later I called and she picked up after she got home " she said it was so cold and she had grocery stuffs so she couldn't pick up my cellphone. I got mad again but I didn't wanted to break up since odor have solid proof an I am not 100% sure even I doubt on her. Today I called her - she finish her night school after 9:30pm - I called her and her cell is off. I don't know. I don't have solid proof but I feel she is cheating - please tell me how can I know weather she is cheating or not.... I was reading article above and mentioned that if ur girlfriend doesn't wanna have sex much when we used to have sex alot before. Please help. I wanna end this if she really is cheating - I always feel stress thinking about she cheating on me when I don have a solid proof
I believe my girlfriend is cheating on me so I stabbed her, that will teach her
I believe that my girlfriend is cheating on me but I honestly don't know what to do. We've been together for 2 months now and I am really worried about this even tho it is a short time together. The chances will still be there! How can I notice that my girlfriend has been cheating on me? and also, if I suddently feel that she's cheating on me, that would have a reason why.. Because I honestly don't believe her and I honestly don't want to be together with a cheating slag... Anyone got any advices for me what to do? I am 17 years old, on my way for getting 18.. I don't want to waste my youth on some cheating slag, but I am not even sure if she is really cheating.. She's been differently and very secretfully (what I am trying to say is that she acts like she's hiding something). Anyone please help? Thank you.hard to say if shes cheating or not. just watch and see if her behavior changes. behavior change is an indicator of cheating. and you are young if you think she is cheating on you your gut instinct is proly right. you can sense that somethings not right.In your writeup you didn't indicate one reason why you thought she is cheating on you.Men are naturally curious to sudden change and always fail to find out why.You seriously need to have solid reasons for your suspect and to find out why? thanks.
hi...... im alittle unsure about talking about this....... anyways i have a GF comming upto 7 months now anyways over the past month she has been telling this guy she loves him he is 4 years younger anyways when i asked her about it she said it was to get stuff from him for free like games n food anyways i asked her to stop the other day n she promessed me she would that night she asked for a break in our relationship but she still wants to go out with me but she wants the relationship to be comitment free for afew weeks where she can flirt with other guys i said ok to that please tell me what u think do u think she could be cheating on me she cheated on her ex with another guy n flirted with someone else but she is genualy guilty about it she is very very very scared of doing it again but she says that i satusfiy her needs n i beleave her she also likes making guys jealous..... what do u think?why would you want to be with somebody who makes you feel unsure about things? she wants a break so she can flirt with other guys? that should be a heads up right there that she isnt right for you. if you still want to be with her tho then you might as well take full advantage of the break as well and meet other ppldude if she is doing this to you and she has ask for a brake in the relationship but also said that its so she can have an open relationship then please smill the coffee she is cheating on you or at lest has the plan to so head is what you need to do really is ask you self do you want to be with someone like that is this the relationship you want would be ok with her doing that to you and if you answer no to all thouse qustion give her a brake but make sure that it is a clean and long lasting one in other words dump her ass.But in turn cause i know diffrent strocks for driffrent folks and all but if you ok with it then do the same thing find a nice girl have some fun and see how it gose.
Very insightful article, Thanks.
My Fiancee and I have been together a year and 4 months, but we've only been engaged for 4 months. Ever since the beginning of the relationship there would be times when I was uneasy about her. I was always open to her with my secret stuff, but she has always been uncomfortable showing me messages on her computer and on her cell phone. I've been a great boyfriend, sex life is good, but she likes to start fights with me, or say things that make me feel bad about myself. And it has got worse recently. She asks me if I'm cheating on her quite a bit. When we try to talk about things she tries to push me away, or she gets mad because I speak my opinion. I am whipped and the relationship is one sided, but when I try to show dominance she raises hell on me. I can't tell if she's cheating or not, because I don't live with her 24/7, like every other week. But, she was raised by some weird people, when she was about 4 her real mom took her to crack houses and had been raped. She's had alot of BAD boyfriends in the past. She claims she's not bi or anything, but she's had 6 male partners and 3 female partners. And most of the guys she's had sex with, she did just because they told her she was pretty. So, I'm wondering if she's cheating on me. Or has security issues and a bad life that might require her to get some counseling to help her self esteem?
People who cheat are worthless whores with no moral value. They are trash probably associated by trash. Dont associate yourself with trashy @#$%&*in retards who have no morals or values to speak of like I did. I found myself in a situation where I know I was being cheated on. It really hurts me. I take solace in the fact that I know now she was not what I thought she was. A moral person who was worth a damn. Shes not worth a @#$%&*ing bit. I was a @#$%&*in retard for not knowing she was cheating on me. Never trust a @#$%&*in bitch never do it. You have to be a @#$%&*in man and stay away from dumbass hoes. I guess I have to say @#$%&*. I learned my lesson and will never @#$%&* around with trash like her. The kind of trash that likes to @#$%&* all over the town including men and women people who cheat or even consiter @#$%&*ing some one elses girlfriend are trash sons of bitches. Because of this horrible situation and most painful thing thats ever happened in my life I am going to change the way I live and the way I look at other people without any @#$%&*in conscious. The way I look at myself. Im sick of this $%&*@$%& I'm going to forget about that @#$%&*in bitch forever. Shes worthless trash but she is a lesson that I need to make my life better and myself better so that I don't have to associate with trash like her or any other man who lacks any god damn charachter. Honestly people like that have always made me sick. How I got involved probably has some thing to do with me being young and not having a male role model to tell me what the @#$%&* was up. As for now I feel fine just angry about the whole thing. I want vengance against every one who @#$%&*ed my ex girlfriend while we were together. I want to get vengence in my own life against them so I am going to be better than them by bettering myself. Im @#$%&*in @#$@#&*ed and will never @#$%&* around with that kind of human waste/trash again. When you get cheated on your first reaction will be rage and anger sadness and heartbreak and it doesn't go away easily. I dont think mine will ever go away. I pray to @#$%&*in God I will be able to over-come this wretched $%&*@$%& and @#$%&* every single piece of $%&*@$%& that lacks moral values that ever enters my life. I dont know y'all i am just very mad this is all just flowing from me and I truly believe that will make me feel better in the end. God damn it If I had read the first signs mentioned at the beginning of this article and followed my gut and intense instinct about this I would have caught that worthless trash in the act and done something about it on the spot. Every one just a tip. Listen to your @#$%&*in heart and if you have an intense feeling then nab that bloodsucking @#$%&* face in the act. Dont let some one infect your life and use you for $%&*@$%&. Dont let some one use you or infect you with bull $%&*@$%&. Don't @#$%&* around with a girl if you feel like she lacks intelligence or sincerity. Just listen to your own @#$%&*in heart. Dont @#$%&* with girls like that. Guys who get cheated on are some of the best people out there who get stuck with some of the worst @#$%&*s in the world and don't even know it because they them selfs are disillusioned. Guys dont @#$%&*in take the girl and put her into your god damn life without having your $%&*@$%& together. They will never do it for you and they are usually just blood sucking whores who can stop getting @#$%&*ed because they are worthless and dumb. They have absolutly no self respect or dedication to you do not be fooled by your own optimism. They are worthless trash and you are some thing better than that. You are some one who is better than that $%&*@$%&. I realized that from this situation I need to grow the @#$%&* up and become the kind of person who doesn't hang around with trash that have no conscious or religion. @#$%&* them all. In this crazy kind of world you must remind yourself (after this happening to you) that 9/10 women and men are not suitable to be in any kind of sexual or intimate or even friendly relationship with. 9/10 lack moral fiber and spine. Make sure to spot them and do not treat them with any kindness because they don't really deserve a god damned thing from you. Especially not your god given time and effort. Chose wisely who you surround yourself with. If your gonna @#$%&* some one make sure they don't have a boyfriend or some one else that could be hurt by your actions. I think that is equally @#$%&*ed up and wrong to do.
my girlfriend just told me she cheated on me... she is sad and wants to kill herself. this is the second time this has happened....And it will happen again... Girl's are just like guys and both are great actors. And the one who is bold enough to cheat also has these extra abilities up their sleeves... Let her cry.. Get out....
Dont get mad Dont get sad get even. You want your girl to learn a lesson so the next guy can save face? If she cheats on you but then says something like (it was the biggest mistake of my life) what that really means is (your my security blanket blah blah im a whore and I wont change) So what you do is act like everything is cool. Take her back. Use her money and try to nail her friends and family members behind her back. What do you stand to lose if she finds out? Target the people closest to her and try to take them away from her. Make that bitch feel as alone as she made you feel with no remorse. If someone really loved you they wouldnt have the heart to put anyone in that position in the first place. I say karma is a mother @#$%&*er and hit her where it counts. In the bank - family - friends. Once she loses everything then she will think twice about doing it again.Sounds so harsh. But I think your spot on. Sometimes women wont learn unless you make them feel the way they made you feel.
Well, as a girl I think it would be helpful to ask your girlfriend this question: what do you think cheating is?*Some girls think that just talking to other guys is being friendly and sociable or that they are spending time with a friend and that cheating is purely physical.Eg) A friend I've met split up with her boyfriend after he discovered that she went to a guy's house that he thought she gave a lot of attention to and didn't tell him about it. She explained to me that the guy who's house she went to had been her friend since she was very young and she found the person much like a brother, there were other people there, including his girlfriend and they'd done nothing physically before, during or after. She wasn't completely honest about it because she got the vibe that her boyfriend didn't quite agree, but he didn't verbalise it and she really wanted to go to the party because it would be embarrassing as a strong, young woman to explain that you can't go to a party or talk to a friend any more because the boyfriend said so. It's a bit like when a young teenager is maybe doing something rebellious that they know there parents might disagree with, but they don't know for certain and they feel guilty about it, but they really, really want to do it...So, she told a white lie about it so she could go to the house party and not hear her boyfriend ask her verbally not to go, which in that case would have a conflict between being judged by her friends or by her boyfriend...which would have made it more difficult to decide whether to go or not.Not sure if I've worded it to make complete sense. But, anyway, according to this girl she didn't cheat on her boyfriend even though he thought that she did.*For some girls cheating is about who the time is most spent with ect.Girls who love their girlfriend but get a lot of attention from another friend and in order to be polite and keep at good terms with their boyfriend's mates unintentionally end up spending a lot of time with the mate, developing an emotional connection with that friend. This is one of those things where there's a lot of Facebook comments from this one guy on your girlfriend's friend wall ect and if he or she asks if the other is going to be there when hanging out in groups. I think this is the most common form of cheating and I notice this happen the most often...*Just because a girl kisses you doesn't mean she's in a relationship with you: it means that probably she wants to, but that it's important to ask, otherwise she's also confused about what it meant and keep her options open. One girl explained to me about a guy she met in a different city who she kissed and danced with, but it's no big deal as they live far away and it's not as though they're going to form a relationship because they live so far apart. They talk a lot on Facebook and she's never been in a relationship before at all, not that he knew. So, the kiss probably confused her...?!I think one way to prevent your girlfriend cheating on you is to work out what boundaries you both have and your expectations. It becomes clearer then. The girlfriend knows what you consider to be going to far and what will hurt you and she can explain what she considers to be going to far and what would hurt her ect.To tell if your girlfriend is serious about you, it's also good to listen to what her viewpoints on the relationship. Is she there more because she feels happy or wants to make you feel happy?What kind of love is she looking for?Does it hurt her when you don't reply straight away to phone messages? Ect.I think a very important part of a long lasting relationship is defining what kind of relationship and why you want it, not talking about the other partner to anyone in a negative way, trust-stop considering other people as options and looking for greener grass in case the current one becomes entwined with weeds, being honest about whether you look towards a steady future together with children in the distant future, not looking for equality but looking more at how you can make the other person happy rather than yourself (giving is very rewarding). I think the thing that stops most people from cheating is the pain they can inflict on the person being cheated upon or the family rather than the pain to self of possibly having to part as result of the action and the cheating self being in pain. I think lust is about what you can get from someone. But, love isn't always exciting or immediately rewarding as it's more about how much of yourself you can give and share with someone. If a girlfriend is really sorry about cheating after experiencing your pain then she will be willing to make many sacrifices in order to ensure it doesn't happen again. I think that if it happens again and you've both been honest and clear about what you consider cheating to be and she's already witnessed your pain caused by the cheating then she doesn't love you even if she says that she does.
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